Self Sabotage

Self sabotage

Everyone does it sometimes. Some do it regularly—shoot themselves in the foot or put obstacles in their own chosen path. Behavior is self-sabotaging when in attempting to solve or cope with a problem, it instigates new problems, interferes with long-term goals, and unsettles relationships.

We dont know happiness, though happiness its what all fundamentally search for, for many of us, it isn´t really what we know, when we get to experience happiness we usually feel it as “good luck” for it is a short term experience and it scares us.

Because happiness isn’t regular, it doesn’t feel like a normal, we choose difficult ways instead of alienated fulfilling moments for it feels risky to be happy because we put ourselves up in the arms of hope, and, disliking this concept, we try to be in our zone of control.

We deserve patience, self-sabotage is not an act, it's a process, a complex, tragic process that pits people against their own thoughts and impulses. Though we all make mistakes, a true self-saboteur continues to try to fix those mistakes by top-loading them with increasingly bad decisions.

We try to make other feel how hard it is for us, this is mostly because we fail in transmitting our most deep emocions, alcohol and other drugs are our door to self-discharge, but when the time is troubling and these drugs are missing, we tend to have aggressive, hurting reactions to our friends or parterns, maybe so they can feel as confused as we do.

In conclusion, self-sabotage is like a grenade that suddenly explodes in our lives — pushing us away from our deepest wants and desires. However, there are no excuses, because we are the ones who consciously control the movement of the pin. Therefore make a better decision today that you won’t fall prey to your self-sabotage patterns ever again.